My niece came over for Sunday dinner recently, and while she was here she asked how long my husband and I had been married. I was excited to say 15 years. Then I took a big breath. Yes it had been 15 years. It seems to have flown by, and while marriage in itself is hard and trying, it is the ups and downs that make time seem to fly even faster. My children were amazed it had been that long, for them 15 years is forever, and they asked about our wedding day. I smiled and grabbed the old photo album. My mother-in-law insisted we get a nice album of our wedding day and at the time I was hesitant. I wasn’t sure where I was going to put it and felt a little vain having all those pictures of myself, even though I was gorgeous on my wedding day. I know I am going to regret putting this in writing but, I am glad I listened to my mother-in-law. I felt glowing, showing my wedding day to my children and relatives. It sparked a flame of remembrance of the feelings I felt for my husband on that special day. I really was in love and the pictures proved it. I had perfect pictures of my grandparents who have now passed on, smiling and happy. Oh the memories it brought back. There in that album was the story of the best day of my life preserved in a elegant way that even someone who wasn’t there that day could see and appreciate. I am so glad I invested in a product that would finish off a wonderful memory.
One of things I stress to my friends is to get the album, save the memories. A new trend in the wedding industry right now is to hand a disk to the bride, and the bride hands the photographer a check and the day is over. While this might seem like a money saver, it is in the end a bad deal. What happens to that disk after the wedding is over? Well the bride puts the pictures on her computer, and emails them to cousins, aunts, grandparents, and friends. They then love the pictures and oo and ahh and then delete them and move on with their lives. On the computer they last longer, well until the next hard-drive melt down or computer glitz. Not to mention viruses love bridal pictures. And the handy disk that they were originally stored on? Where oh where did I put that again? Seriously though, discs even with their advances, are only really good for a few years before the images start to corrupt. The only sure way to store your pictures archivally is to print them. What a better way to preserve the memories then to print and display them in an album instead of printing them all as 4-5′s and storing them in a shoe box under the bed. With technology there are many ways to show more than one image to create not just a page in an album but the story in a way that is professional. It will make your day seem like one out of a story book.
I love Hallmark commercials, they always make me cry. My husband thinks I just cry to bug him. I always laugh though, at the part where they look on the back to see if it is a Hallmark card. It is a symbol that the person sending the card sent the very best because they care. A finished picture is much the same. Have you ever turned your picture over to see what is on the back? When I was younger learning to cross-stitch patterns, my mom used to tell me that you could tell a project was done with love by the way it was treated on the back. She would tell me if you could recognize the picture on the back it was because all the loose ends were carefully tucked in place so that nothing came undone. She would say, ” If you are going to take the time to make a work of art, take the time to do it your best.” A finished portrait should be finished on the back as well. Even if your guests aren’t peeking at the back when they look at it, you are assure that there are no nails or screws poking threw at the wall. Also there is something to hang it on. As a master procrastinator I can tell you there is nothing worse than finally getting to hang that picture and then not being able to because there isn’t a hanger on the picture. At MarDel Photography every measure is taken to make sure when you receive your work of art it is finished to every detail, ready for you to share with those you love. Make sure when you choose a photographer you look at the details of the finished work.




